The Art of Negotiation - Lawmakers FAIL

The Art of Negotiation

In many lines of business negotiations are an everyday occurrence. Sometimes deals are struck quickly without much deliberation and other times it takes many back-and-forth's to find just the right accord. Once the deliberating parties agree, generally terms are recorded in writing and signatures appended. It's imperative to keep a cool head, remain focused and leave emotion at the door. It's a process that involves give and take and usually one or both parties compromise.

 

Moving Forward and Performing With Great Expectation

Once a deal has been struck, terms have been recorded in writing and signatures appended, parties begin to perform according to the terms of the agreement. Time lines and specific actions are detailed. Often, as actions or terms are met, addendum are signed by both parties. Expectations on both sides are realistic as set forth in the written and signed agreement.

 

Defaults and Enforceability

While expectations may be realistic and terms may be clear, sometimes things don't work out. So, what happens if one party defaults on the terms and is unable to perform? How is the agreement enforceable? The answer will vary according to the terms of the agreement, but "any agreement where parties have necessary capacity to contract and the contract was not trifling, indeterminate, impossible or illegal. Remedies can be provided."

 

Lawmakers rip Fed's 'bait-and-switch'

I came across an article in the Washington Times from this past Friday. (hat tip Delusional Duck)

Here's the opening two paragraphs:

Angry lawmakers Friday accused the Treasury Department of pulling a "bait-and-switch" as it implements the $700 billion Wall Street rescue plan approved by Congress last month.

Treasury Secretary Henry A. Paulson Jr. earlier this week confirmed that the bailout funds would be used primarily to re-capitalize banks and other financial firms through direct stock purchases, not to purchase "toxic" mortgage and other assets from lenders as the Bush administration originally intended.

 

An Obvious Disconnect

There's obviously a disconnect between the lawmakers and the Treasury Department. But, that's not what bothered me. What bothered me was the lawmakers inability to implement and execute an agreement according to their expectations.

The lawmakers expected the bailout funds to be used to "buy toxic mortgages and other assets from lenders". Instead the bailout funds are primarily being used "to re-capitalize banks and other financial firms through direct stock purchases".

Politics aside or whether you agreed with Government intervention or not, there is a lesson to be learned from this.

 

The Lesson?

While I am not an attorney and I am not offering legal advice I do suggest the lesson here is:

  • Get the agreement in writing
  • Understand what is written
  • Make sure what is written is enforceable
  • Expectations are realistic and are based on what is written
  • Assume nothing
  • And when needed seek competent legal counsel

 

It's My Business

I'm a Realtor and my business is listing and selling houses. I don't know the intricacies of lawmaking, but I am familiar with contracts to list and sell Real Property. That's a large part of my job. I visualize my contract as my tool box. I do know what's in my tool box, how to use those tools and I also know my limitations with each tool.

 

What's This All About

We're in tough times, times I've never seen before. Some say this is the worst Global Economy in 20 years, others compare this to the Great Depression. But, while relevant, that's not my point.

Lawmakers are well-educated and many of them have been in Congress for some time. They have experiences far greater than many of us, so I don't think it's a question of ability. Call me the eternal optimist, but I also don't think it was malicious or self-serving. I do believe, collectively, their intent was good and meant to bring positive change.

Because of the magnitude of the crisis and in their haste to devise a solution, I think lawmakers lost focus of the art of negotiation and made decisions based more on emotion than logic.

 

What say you?

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We Walked Hallowed Ground


Veterans Day 2008 was a special day. I took my kids to the wreath laying ceremonies at Arlington National Cemetery. The weather was cool and crisp and when we crossed the threshold of Memorial Drive, a somber, respectful feeling came over us as the site of thousands of white marble headstones came into view.


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Because of the of the crowds, the number of people were limited at the Tomb of the Unknown Soldier for the wreath laying ceremony. We tried to get to the rail so my kids could see, but the line was just too deep. We moved over to the amphitheater and found a seat. We were greeted by volunteers handing out programs and small flags to commemorate the day.


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The Mistress of Ceremonies was Bo Derek. She introduced the speakers, including Vice President Cheney. The Navy Band played several music selections including God Bless America. The program included the procession of the colors and a prayer for the Veterans.


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The audience included members of Congress, members of the Senate, Cabinet members, Former and Active Military, moms, dads, wives, husbands, and children. The event was free to the public and all were welcome.


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The ceremony inside the amphitheater lasted about an hour. At the conclusion, we walked over to the Tomb of the Unknown Soldier to witness the laying of several Veterans Group's wreaths.


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The grounds at Arlington National Cemetery are vast and includes the internment of President John F. Kennedy, his wife Jacquelyn Kennedy Onassis, and his brother Robert Kennedy.


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Arlington National Cemetery Facts


Arlington Mansion and 200 acres of ground immediately surrounding it were designated officially as a military cemetery June 15, 1864, by Secretary of War Edwin M. Stanton.


More than 300,000 people are buried at Arlington Cemetery.


Veterans from all the nation's wars are buried in the cemetery, from the American Revolution through the Iraq and Afghanistan. Pre-Civil War dead were reinterred after 1900.




How Did Veterans Day Come About?


November 11, or what has come to be known as Veterans Day, was originally set as a U.S. legal holiday to honor Armistice Day - the end of World War I, which officially took place on November 11, 1918. In legislature that was passed in 1938, November 11 was "dedicated to the cause of world peace and to be hereafter celebrated and known as 'Armistice Day.' As such, this new legal holiday honored World War I veterans.


In 1954, after having been through both World War II and the Korean War, the 83rd U.S. Congress, at the urging of the veterans service organizations, amended the Act of 1938 by striking out the word "Armistice" and inserting the word "Veterans." With the approval of this legislation on June 1, 1954, November 11 became Veterans Day, a day to honor American veterans of all wars.

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New Costco in Brandywine, MD and Gas is $1.98 for Members!

Brandywine Costco

The Costco in Brandywine, MD has opened! When I drove past this afternoon, the parking lot looked close to full with more cars making the turn into what is now known as Brandywine Crossing. The Shopping center is also anchored with Target which has been open for several weeks.

But, the excitement today was Costco. Why? Because, until now, the closest Costco was in Springfield, VA, which can be an hour or more away from Southern Maryland, depending on traffic. And gas is $1.98 per gallon for members!

According to the listing Brokers site, the retail center, when complete, will boast 368,000 sq ft of anchor space, 55,000 sq ft of specialty shop retail, and a 16 screen movie theatre. Completion is expected between Fall of 2009 and Spring of 2010.

Address:

7601 Matapeake Business Dr
Brandywine, Maryland 20613

Regular Hours:

M-F 10:00am - 8:30pm
Sat. 9:30am - 6:00pm
Sun. 10:00am - 6:00pm

Warehouse Telephone Number:

(301) 372-3200

Warehouse Features:

1 Hour Photo/Digital Prints
Auto Buying Program
Bakery
Executive Membership
Food Court
Fresh Deli
Fresh Meat
Fresh Produce
Gas Station
Hearing Aids
Independent Optometrist
Membership
Optical Department
Pharmacy (301) 372-3209
Rotisserie Chicken
Tire Service Center

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St. Mary's Bryantown Catholic School - 32nd Annual Christmas Auction and Bazarre

Plan to attend the 32nd Annual Christmas Bazarre, Auction and Auction Preview

Come early as it is a popular event and is attended well. Plan to also take advantage of the Auction Preview Thursday, December 4, 2008 from 7pm - 10pm. Thursday's event is adult only, please. Wine and Hor d'oeuvres will be served, so make an evening out of it.

We hope to see you. This is a GREAT EVENT!!!

 

Where?

St. Mary's Bryantown Catholic School

13735 Notre Dame Place

Bryantown, MD 20617

301-932-6883 or 301-843-3387

Click here for a map

 

When?

Saturday, December 6th, 2008

 

Time?

9am - 5pm

Auction starts at 11:30am

 

Auction Preview Dates and Times:

Thursday, December 4, 2008 7-10om

Silent Auction and auction catalog available for review. Wine and Hors d'oeuvres will be served (adults only please). Featuring live music by friends and family.

 

Auction Items:

Golf and Wine packages, antiques, furniture, trips, museum, theatre and restaurant certificates, and much, much, more!

Visa and Mastercard accepted, 10% buyers premium

 

Auctioneer:

Rodney Thompson

Homestead Auction Company

 

Bazarre Items:

Wreaths, boutique corner, bake table, hot food, children's games, $1,000 raffle and Santa's Workshop!

Visa and Mastercard accepted.

 

Proceeds Benefit:

St. Mary's Bryantown Catholic School and Parish

 

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2008 Veterans Day Events Around Washington, DC

How Did Veterans Day Come About?

November 11, or what has come to be known as Veterans Day, was originally set as a U.S. legal holiday to honor Armistice Day - the end of World War I, which officially took place on November 11, 1918. In legislature that was passed in 1938, November 11 was "dedicated to the cause of world peace and to be hereafter celebrated and known as 'Armistice Day.' As such, this new legal holiday honored World War I veterans.

In 1954, after having been through both World War II and the Korean War, the 83rd U.S. Congress, at the urging of the veterans service organizations, amended the Act of 1938 by striking out the word "Armistice" and inserting the word "Veterans." With the approval of this legislation on June 1, 1954, November 11 became Veterans Day, a day to honor American veterans of all wars.

And so with this, if you are in Washington, DC, or live in the Washington, DC metro area, there are many opportunities to pay tribute to our men and women in the Armed Forces - past, present, and future. With the many events taking place at the national monuments and memorials, it is a great time to tour them as well.

Don't live in the Washington, DC area or want more information? The United States Department of Veterans Affairs has a listing of regional Veterans Day events across the Country.

 

World War II Memorial

Located at 17th Street, between Constitution and Independence Avenues, NW Washington, DC. (202) 619-7222. A wreath laying ceremonies begins at 8 a.m.


Arlington National Cemetery

Across the Potomac from Washington at the west end of the Memorial Bridge, Arlington, Virginia. (703) 607-8000 This is the national Veterans day service with a wreath-laying ceremony at the Tomb of the Unknown Soldier. 11 a.m. Seating in the amphitheater is limited, so visitors should plan to arrive at least a half hour before the ceremony.


Vietnam Veterans Memorial

Located at Constitution Avenue and Henry Bacon Dr. NW, Washington, DC. The event features Color guard, speakers and a wreath-laying ceremony will take place at 1p.m.


Mount Vernon Estate & Gardens

Special activities include a patriotic community concert by the all-veteran barbershop chorus at 11 a.m., at 2 p.m. wreathlaying at the tomb of our first commander-in-chief, George Washington, and "Martha Washington" talking about her work with veterans at 1 p.m. and 3 p.m. in the Little Theater.

Active duty military personnel and veterans are admitted free-of-charge. The wreathlaying is included with regular Mount Vernon admission, $13 for adults and $6 children. The barbershop concert and Martha Washington program are free.

Source for events and times: District of Columbia Office of Veterans Affairs
 

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Come to a Village Christmas

Hughesville Happenings is sponsoring a Village Christmas on Saturday December 6, 2008. Please bring the whole family, as there will be:

 

  • Tree Decorating
  • Tree Lighting
  • Christmas Carols
  • Santa Claus
  • Hot Cider and Hot Chocolate
  • Candy Canes
  • and More!

There's also opportunities to sponsor Christmas tree ornaments. The sponsored Christmas tree ornaments will be personalized to display your business name, your employee's name, your family, or in memory of a friend or loved one. The sponsored ornaments will be displayed on the Village Christmas tree.

Hughesville Happenings Ornament

The cost to sponsor a Christmas tree ornament is $25.00 and the deadline to order is November 25, 2008. To order mail your sponsorship check to:

 

Hughesville Happenings

PO BOX 297

Hughesville, MD 20637

 

With your order, please indicate quanitity and what you'd like included on the ornament.

 

More details to follow soon, but mark your calendars now!

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The Rhythm of Running is a Great Mantra to Live By

Catatonic, Floundering and Without Purpose

How many times have you found yourself at a point in your day where you're not quite sure what to do? You reached the proverbial fork in the road and you don't know which direction to take? Or, you find yourself wandering, floundering or moving without purpose or direction?

Some of you may know I run. I run regularly and sometimes I run far. But, each day, each week, each month I run with a purpose. I train for three (four if I'm lucky) Marathons per year. I do speed work on Wednesday's and Saturday's, hills on Thursday's and long runs on Monday's. Tuesday's, Thursday's and Sunday's are upper body and core work. Additionally, I raise money for injured Marines and their families and collect food for the local food bank.

What's Your Point?

Running Marathons, and for the purpose of this post running a successful business, is about planning, education, dedication, commitment, consistency, experience, flexibility, determination and discipline. It's also about setting specific, attainable, relevant goals and measuring success.

Within all of us is a desire to be great. We work hard to be good at something and to strive to do better. Without specific purpose or direction, the measure for success and the ability to get better is greatly hampered. Purpose enables direction and generates additional experiences, which leads to increased knowledge and expertise.

Success is Subjective

Success in Marathons is not necessarily determined by a clock, placement, points or money. It can be, but for most runners including myself, success is determined by personal objectives. A successful Marathon can be a new personal record (PR), running without hitting "the wall", or just finishing without being "swept from the course". It's a personal goal and when met the feeling is exhilarating. No one can take that experience away from you.

We all have a desire to excel and achieve goals. The difference between surviving and thriving, in my opinion, are defining specific purpose and goals, measuring success and building on experiences. If you don't know where you're going, how you got there or where you started, achieving goals and measuring success will be difficult. Additionally, you probably won't generate new experiences to build on.

Forward Movement

Sometimes our performance plateaus and we find ourselves in a funk. That's ok, but figure out why the energy level isn't optimal or why motivation is lacking. Maybe you need a break, the training is incorrect or nutrition is deficient.

If all else fails just put one foot in front of the other. Don't become paralyzed with indecision and seize. Forward movement is better than no movement at all. At least you'll finish and remember that can be an accomplishment all by itself. Just settle into your pace and listen to the rhythm of running.

 

 

 

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Fabulous Park Place Condo Overlooking Del Ray and Masonic Temple

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Haunting Tale of Louise Mudd Arehart and the Restoration of the Mudd Home

Louise Mudd Arehart, the youngest granddaughter of Dr. Samuel Mudd, Mudd farmhouse in Bryantown, MD, claims to have had knocks at the door of her home in La Plata, MD, with no one there, and sounds of someone walking up and down the stairs or hallway.

Then she began to catch glimpses of a man wearing black pants and a vest with a white shirt, the sleeves rolled up. One day she realized the man was her grandfather, Dr. Samuel Mudd. She believes he kept visiting her because he was upset by the disrepair of the family home.

Mrs. Arehart persuaded her brother, Joe, who owned the home, to let her restore it and turn the house into a museum. She wrote many letters to congressmen and other elected officials. The home was finally put on the National Register of Historic places in 1974 and was open to the public in 1983.

Until the day she died, she said she had to maintain a busy schedule aimed at completing restoration of the farmhouse because when she slowed down, her grandfather had a habit of coming around and "bothering" her. So, the haunting of Louise Mudd Arehart by her grandfather, Dr. Samuel Mudd, is what prompted the opening of the Dr. Mudd house as a museum.

The Mudd home and Museum are open every Wednesday, Saturday and Sunday, from 11 a.m. to 4 p.m. Last tour is 3:30 p.m. The house will close November 23, 2008. We will be open on December 6 and 7 for the 7th Victorian Christmas.

From December 8 to the last weekend of March, 2009 the museum is closed. If you have guests in town during the time they are closed and they are free, they advertise they will give tours. Call 301-274-9358.

Dr. Mudd is buried at St. Mary's Catholic Church in Bryantown, MD.

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Zekiah Farms Safe Trick or Treat Night - Portion of Proceeds to Benefit Trooper 2 Public Safety Heroes

Zekiah Farms, along with Maryland State Police, and Charles County Fire and EMS are proud to sponsor safe trick or treating in the maze on Oct. 31 and Nov. 1, 2008. A portion of the admission proceeds to benefit the memorial funds of these three heroes who were killed in the line of duty September 27, 2008:

 

Cpl Steve Bunker

TFC Mickey Lippy

EMT Tonya Mallard

 

 

Trick or treating in the mazes

Two mazes Over 3 miles of pathway

Best Costume contest at 7:30pm both nights

Hayrides

Farm animals

Pumpkins

Pumpkin painting

Straw pit

Barn Yard Café

Corn Hole game

 

Where: Zekiah Farms

5235 Bryantown Rd, Waldorf, Md 20601

240-216-4065 www.zekiahfarms.com

 

When:

Halloween Night Oct 31 from 6pm to 9pm

Nov. 1 from 6pm to 9pm

 

Tickets: $8.00 per person

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